Famous Name: Evelyn

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April 15 this year marked one hundred years since the sinking of the RMS Titanic. There were many exhibitions to mark the event, and James Cameron re-released his romantic film Titanic in 3-D form. As I read the many newspaper articles about  the centenary, and watched ceremonies being performed in various countries on television, I wondered whether there were any Australians aboard the ill-fated Titanic, and if so, had any of them survived?

It turned out that there were six Australians who travelled on the Titanic – four crew members, and two passengers. Crew members Donald Campbell, Alfred Nicols and Leonard White were drowned and their bodies never found, while second-class passenger Arthur McCrae also drowned, but his body was recovered and buried in Halifax, Canada. That left two survivors: third-class passenger Charles Dahl, and crew member Evelyn Marsden.

Although Charles had spent thirty years in Australia, he was born in Norway and was actually in the process of making his way back to his home country when he travelled on the Titanic (he eventually made it home and died in Norway many years later). This leaves Evelyn Marsden as the only female Australian survivor, the only surviving Australian crew member, and the only Australian-born survivor. That made me decide to choose Evelyn as my Famous Name to mark the centenary of the sinking of the RMS Titanic.

Evelyn was from country South Australia, and the daughter of a railway worker. As a young girl, she learned to row a boat on the Murray River while staying on a farm, and later trained as a nurse at Adelaide Hospital. She had previously worked on board the Titanic‘s sister-ship, the Olympic, and signed on to work as a stewardess on the Titanic on April 6 1912, aged 28. She also assisted as a nurse for the first class passengers.

During the sinking, Evelyn escaped on board Boat 16, which held about forty people. They were in the life boat all night, from about half past one in the morning until around seven in the morning, when they were picked up by the Carpathia. Evelyn’s rowing skills became necessary, because she helped row the boat, and also took care of a baby.

Shortly after the disaster, she married a doctor named Abel James who had also worked on board ocean liners, and they went to live in South Australia. Evelyn made a point of returning to the farm, and thanked them for teaching her to row. Evelyn and her husband ended up living in Bondi, Sydney, and when they both passed away in the late 1930s, they were buried in Waverley Cemetery. Their grave was unmarked until 2000.

Evelyn is an English surname derived from the female name Aveline. Aveline is the Norman French form of Germanic Avelina, a pet form of Avila. It’s not certain what Avila meant, but it’s generally thought (perhaps hopefully) that it meant “desired”, as in a child that was long hoped for. The name is possibly related to Ava.

Other theories I have heard are that the surname is derived from aveline, the Old French word for “hazelnut” (the word comes from the Italian city of Avella), or after a place in Shropshire, which the Normans are supposed to have named after a village in France, Ivelyn. In early records, the surname is found as both Ivelyn and Avelyn.

Evelyn was first given to boys in the 17th century, since Aveline was no longer in use as a woman’s name. In the 19th century it began to be bestowed on girls as well, quite possibly because Fanny Burney’s novel Evelina reminded everyone that the name had a possible feminine origin (Evelina is the Latinate form of Aveline). If you are a fan of the theory that the surname is after the hazelnut, then you may see the male name Evelyn and the female name Evelyn as having quite separate origins.

The most famous person with the surname Evelyn is probably 17th century English writer John Evelyn, best known for his diaries. He wrote on many other subjects as well, including gardening, and the Evelyn rose is named after him – a beautiful old-fashioned rose with clusters of large pinky-apricot blooms. There is currently a campaign to restore Evelyn’s own garden at Sayes Court, in east London.

Nearly everyone has heard of the male English novelist Evelyn Waugh (whose wife was famously also called Evelyn), and a famous Australian man named Evelyn is Evelyn Owen from Wollongong, who invented the Owen gun. Mr Owen was apparently known by the nickname Evo. A famous Australian woman named Evelyn was Evelyn Tazewell, a champion hockey player in South Australia for many decades. Miss Tazewell went by the nickname Taz.

Evelyn is a classic name which has never been out of the charts. It was Top 100 in the 1900s, and stayed there until the 1950s. It reached its lowest point in the 1980s, at #435, then began climbing again. Last year it joined the Top 100 for the first time since the 1940s, coming in at #67 (an impressive leap). It has never charted as a male name since Federation.

The pronunciation of Evelyn is up for discussion, because it can be said EEV-lin, EEV-uh-lin, EV-lin or EV-uh-lin. I have heard theories that EEV is the British way and EV the American way, but plenty of people in both places say it the other way around. Another theory is that EEV is the masculine pronunciation, and the girl’s name should be said with an EV. This advice sounds plausible to me, but surely rather outdated given that Evelyn hasn’t been a serious contender as a boy’s name for over 120 years?

Most people in Australia go with the EV-uh-lin pronunciation, although EV-lin gets used as well, because it’s a more “Irish” way of saying it (apparently). I must be very odd, because I naturally say EEV-uh-lin, as if the name was related to the name Eve. I don’t recommend following my (no doubt wrong) example, except that it does lead rather neatly into the popular nickname Evie. You could use Evvie for the other pronunciation, although to me that sounds as if you are saying heavy in a Cockney accent.

Classic Evelyn is very much back in fashion, and looks certain to soar. She fits right in with Ava, Eva, Eve, Evie, Eden, Eloise, Madeleine, Madison and Addison, yet has an elegant air all her own.

Bold Baby Names

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We all love visiting Sarah’s blog, For Real Baby Names. In fact, I’ve even admitted being a little envious of her site, which is filled with the juiciest bits from birth announcements around the globe. (Mind you, now I collect my own BAs, on a much more modest scale, my envy has worn off quite a bit as I’ve realised the enormous amount of work involved).

Now Sarah has brought out her own e-book: Bold Baby Names: A Collection of Unusual Names. These are all baby names which don’t make the US Top 1000, and which have been found in recent birth notices.

So often you see names recommended on baby name sites, and you begin to doubt whether anyone even uses them. Would anyone really call their baby Aladdin or Frodo? Or Omega or Vixen? Well now you know that someone definitely did. On the other hand, there are plenty of “normal” names as well, like Cecil and Myrtle, but they’re so unusual today as to seem quite bold too.

Bold Baby Names is arranged alphabetically, and sorted into whether the name was given to a boy or a girl (although many of these names seem suitable for either gender). There are bold middle names to consider, intriguing celebrity baby names, and lists from different countries around the world.

Australia gets its own section, and I think Australian readers will find that a few of the names in this part will seem quite familiar. You may well find yourself saying, “But Lachie‘s my nephew’s name!”, or “I went to school with a girl called Jacinta!”. It just goes to show that we must all share our names with each other, because a fairly standard old name in one country may seem shockingly exotic in another.

For that matter, Sarah also includes the US Top 1000, and there’s some pretty unusual names even on this list. Precious, Clarence, Kimber, Cortez, Meadow and Legend seem reasonably far-out to me, yet there’s enough of them in the United States to make the country’s top name list.

If you are a big fan of For Real Baby Names, you will find yourself entranced by Bold Baby Names. It couldn’t be easier to get your hands on a copy – if you have PayPal, just click the BUY NOW button on Sarah’s site, and you will be able to instantly download it in handy PDF format.

It’s currently on special for US$2.99, so for the price of some small change, you can find out how to be a bold baby namer!

Celebrity Baby News: Chris Hemsworth and Elsa Pataky

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Hollywood actor Chris Hemsworth, and his wife, actress Elsa Pataky, welcomed their first child on May 11, and have named their daughter India Rose. India Hemsworth was born in London.

Chris began his career in 2002, and in 2004 became a regular cast member on soap opera Home and Away. He won the Logie for Most Popular New Talent in 2005. He left Home and Away in 2007, and went to the United States for more career opportunities. Within six weeks he had scored his first movie role, and in 2009 appeared in three different films. The following year he won the Australians in Film Breakthrough Award, and won Male Star of Tomorrow at the CinemaCon Awards. He has starred in Thor, and his film The Avengers has just been released, being named the highest-grossing weekend box-office movie ever. His older brother Liam and his younger brother Luke are also actors.

Elsa is a Spanish actress who has worked in both film and television since 1997. As well as Spanish, she is fluent in English, Romanian, Italian and French, and her work is known in Spain, France, Mexico, the United States and the United Kingdom. She appeared in Snakes on a Plane, and the fifth movie in the Fast and the Furious series. She is the face of Time Force’s jewellery line.

Chris and Elsa began dating early in 2010, and were married during the Christmas holidays in December that year. Elsa has said that she and Chris would like a big family, and she plans to speak to her daughter only in Spanish.

UPDATE: Chris Hemsworth has revealed that the couple had chosen Indie or Indiana for a boy’s name, and Elsa liked India for a girl.

Celebrity Baby News: Brett and Hayley Kirk

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Retired AFL player Brett Kirk, and his wife Hayley, welcomed their fifth child last week, and have named their son Skout. Scout joins brother Indhi, sister Sadie, and twin sisters Memphys and Tallulah.

You may recall that Jessica Marais and James Stewart recently welcomed a daughter named Scout, so this may seem like a bit of a coincidence. However, Scout Stewart and Skout Kirk were also born on the same day, May 9, and they were both born on the same floor of Prince of Wales Private Hospital as well. This seems like quite a coincidence, since only six babies were named Scout last year. It just goes to show, no matter how rare the baby name you’ve chosen, you can’t guarantee that nobody else in your area will have thought of it.

Brett played his whole career with the Sydney Swans, making his debut in 1999. He won the Robert Rose Award for most courageous player in 2006, won Fairest and Best in 2005 and 2007, and won the Paul Kelly Player’s Player Award in 2008. He retired from the game in 2010, after playing his 200th consecutive game, and received both the Best Captain Award, and the Madden Medal Community Spirit Award. Brett is a practising Buddhist, and was able to meet the Dalai Lama on his Australian tour in 2008, presenting him with a signed Swans jersey. For the past six years, he has done volunteer work at the Sydney Children’s Hospital.

Hayley is a published author who writes under the name Hayley Smithers-Kirk. She has written a YA novel called Divine Clementine, and co-authored a children’s story called When’s My Turn? She and Brett wrote a book together designed to inspire children and teenagers called Brave Heart: Lessons Learned From Life.

Brett and Hayley met while attending university together in Wagga Wagga. Hayley was attracted to him because she thought he was a surfer; however eventually she learned to accept he was actually a footballer and they began dating after starting out as friends.

Celebrity Baby News: National Rugby League Babies

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Michael Weyman and his wife Alison recently welcomed their first child – a daughter named Lila. Michael began his career with the Canberra Raiders in 2003, and signed with the St George Illawarra Dragons in 2009. Michael is the brother of Tim Weyman, who plays for the Cronulla Sharks, and their father Ack Weyman was a legend of the game in their home town of Moruya.

Alison (nee Sanders) met Michael when they were both in high school, attending Carroll College in Broulee. They married in 2010, the wedding ceremony being performed by their former school chaplain, and then honeymooned in Fiji.

Arana Taumata and his partner Annika welcomed their daughter Maya a few weeks ago. Arana was born in New Zealand, and came to Australia to play football when he was still a teenager, first playing with the Canterbury Bulldogs in 2008. Arana has been through a period of personal turmoil, but with the help of his current club, the Penrith Panthers, the support of his family, and of course the inspiration provided by his baby daughter, he is trying to get his life back on track.

Waltzing With … Chrysanthe

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This blog post was first published on May 13 2012, and revised and re-posted on March 23 2015

Today is Mother’s Day, which is a special day for anyone who is a mother, or has ever had a mother or mother figure to care for them – hopefully that’s all of us.

Celebrations of motherhood are not a new idea; the ancient Greeks and Romans had festivals in honour of the mother goddess Cybele, and the Christian Church commemorates Mothering Sunday on the fourth Sunday in Lent. Although the mother being honoured on this day is the Virgin Mary, traditionally it was a day for people to spend with their own mum, and bring her flowers and cake.

The Mother’s Day we celebrate in May was started in the United States, and came out of the women’s peace movement. In 1868, Ann Jarvis tried to promote a pacifist Mother’s Day, and when she died in 1904, her vision was still just a dream. Ann’s daughter Anna Jarvis was determined to continue her mother’s campaign, and by 1914, US Congress had passed a law proclaiming the second Sunday in May would be called Mother’s Day.

Unfortunately for Anna and all her hard work, she soon became horrified by the commercialisation of Mother’s Day; greeting cards and boxes of chocolates were not at all what she had had in mind. For the rest of her life, she protested against it, and in the process was arrested for disturbing the peace. Anna spent all her savings trying to stop what she had accomplished, and died in poverty in 1948.

The tradition of giving gifts on Mother’s Day was begun in Australia by a Sydney woman named Janet Heyden. In 1924, Mrs Heyden made a visit to someone in a state women’s home, and was saddened to find so many neglected mothers. To cheer them up, she organised schoolchildren to help bring them gifts donated by local businesses.

Janet was also disappointed by the commercialism of her idea, but sensible enough to realise that more good than harm would come of it. She continued visiting lonely mothers and cheering their days until she died in 1960.

Name Information
The traditional flower to give your mum for Mother’s Day in Australia is the chrysanthemum, because it is an autumn flower, suitable for the season, and ends in mum. The flowers originate in China, where they symbolise cleansing and health, and when they were introduced to Europe, they were named chrysanthemums, meaning “golden flower” in Greek. The Ancient Greeks also had this flower name, but they used it to refer to the daisy-like weed we call the corn marigold, which has been brought to Australia and grows wild here too.

Chrysanthos or Chrysanthus is an Ancient Greek name meaning “golden flower”. Saint Chrysanthus was an early Christian martyr, the husband of the supposed Vestal Virgin named Daria who converted to Christianity. That part of the legend can’t be true, but nonetheless Chrysanthus and Daria were very popular saints, and the name was well known. There was a Roman governor in Britain in the 4th century named Chrysanthus, and Chrysanthos has been used in modern Greece.

Chrysanthe is the feminine form of Chrysanthus, and can also be spelled Chrysanthi (the more obviously Greek spelling). The name is pronounced kri-ZAN-thee. Chrysanthe is also the French form of Chrysanthus, so has been used as a male name in French-speaking countries, including French Canada.

Chrysanthe is a rare name, and has mostly been used in Greece, and by those of Greek heritage. It doesn’t show up in the data in either the US or the UK. However I have seen it used in Australia, and not only on people from a Greek background. A famous contemporary namesake is American/Australian composer and violinist Chrysanthe Tan, who is of Greek heritage, and may be giving the name some publicity.

There’s something a little extravagant about Chrysanthe – it’s gilded, artistic and showy. Yet it doesn’t sound much different to the more familiar ChristinaAnthea, and Xanthe. It is tied by sound and meaning to the chrysanthemum flower, which makes it an ideal name for a daughter born on, or near, Mother’s Day.The traditional nickname is Chryssa, but you could also use Chrys, Chryssie, Thea, or Zan.

POLL RESULT
Chrysanthe received an approval rating of 65%. Opinions on the name were fairly evenly divided – 25% of people thought it was an okay name, while 18% of people hated it.

Saturday Sibsets: Four Families from Tasmania

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THE CIRCUS TROUPE

Kristy and Mark Sands run the Sands Family Circus. They began performing together in the mid-1990s, and initially planned on having two children, but ended up with a few more than that. All the children naturally learned circus skills, and became part of the act.

Jiemba (15) BOY – means “morning star” in the Wiradjuri language

Tohua (13) BOY – in Maori means “egg”; in Polynesia, a Tohua is a ceremonial meeting place

Spida (11) GIRL

Rain (9) BOY

Ooliki (3) BOY – I don’t know what his name means

Next child (due in July)

THE BABYSLING MUMPRENEUR

Anita Lincolne-Lomax turned her passion for attachment parenting into a business when she founded Babes in Arms several years ago. Babes in Arms sells baby carriers and baby slings throughout Australia and New Zealand, and last year Anita was named 2011 Mumpreneur of the Year by parenting website connect2mums.com.au, and Babes in Arms is a finalist in two categories of this year’s Australian Small Business Champion Awards. Her husband Ralph now works full-time in the company.

Tilli (8)

Jontae (5) – a variant of Jonte, a pet form of Jonathan

Aviya (3) – Hebrew name meaning “my father is Yahweh” (unisex)

Grace (7 months)

THE COOKS WHO COOK

Jo Cook is a chef and market curator, and food is her passion. A member of Slow Food Hobart, she runs Flavour Workshops for children, and volunteers at a primary school to work in their kitchen garden. Next she hopes to link up with the university to inspire a new generation to eat more mindfully and healthily. Of course, at home, the family connects around growing food, cooking meals and enjoying them together around the table.

Nina (10)

Charlie (8)

A FRESH START

Sarra Elradi came to Tasmania from Sudan with her four children to give them a better start in life. She had separated from her husband, and the family spent two years in Egypt, which they describe as “very tough”, because there was no one to help them. When they arrived in Australia, only Sarra’s eldest son could speak English, so they were on a steep learning curve; however they appreciate the education they are receiving and the opportunities that are available to them. Sarra’s daughters are both members of the Glenorchy Young Women’s Multicultural Group.

Elsawi BOY Arabic name meaning “servant of God”

Hanadi (15) GIRL Arabic name meaning “lovely fragrance”

Zeinab (12) GIRL Arabic name meaning “desert flower”

One other child

(Photo and story from The Hobart Mercury, May 11 2012)

Name Claiming

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When a social phenomenon becomes so widespread that everyone knows about it, it’s time for the papers to step in and cover it. In this case, the papers have decided it’s time to let us know that many parents are attempting to “reserve” their baby names in advance.

For some, it’s a simple matter of just telling everyone they know what name they have chosen for their impending offspring, with an implicit or express command that nobody else having a baby can use it.

Others send out official notices, get the name embossed and embroidered on everything they can find, and open a Facebook and Twitter account in their unborn baby’s name.

Social researcher Mark McCrindle (from the same company who did the national baby name popularity chart) says that this all part of the movement of wishing our children to be “unique”, and that naming then becomes akin to getting your own “brand”.

Parenting author Maggie Dent notes that this is a step away from tradition. In the past, parents kept their baby names a secret, and often didn’t name a baby until several days after birth, in an effort to get a feel for which name would suit them best.

Swinburne sociology lecturer Deb Dempsey, who is doing a study on baby naming, says that while many parents are still keeping the name a secret, others are going public, and even involving others in the decision, such as asking people on the Internet to help them choose between several different names.

Without disagreeing with any of these people, I would say that this is part of a greater trend – of growing acceptance toward pregnancy and children. While once women were expected to hide their pregnant body under smocks, and to leave their children at home with a babysitter if they went out, we now feel comfortable showing off our baby bumps (celebrities even show their pregnant bodies naked in magazines), and we can take our small children to restaurants and breastfeed in public.

In the same way, we feel more comfortable talking about pregnancy, and that includes sharing the baby names we are thinking of, and posting our ultrasounds on social media. We feel able to ask other people for their opinions, and post polls as to whether they like Madison or Kayla better.

When it comes to actually staking a claim on a name and forbidding others to use it, even if the name is an extremely common one, such as Cooper, or even if the person isn’t yet pregnant (something the papers didn’t cover), then I think that goes a bit past just wanting to be open and share.

A buzz word that gets thrown around a lot when discussing modern life is entitlement, and it is hard for me to understand how you can believe that you deserve the right to claim exclusive rights to any name in advance without a fairly decent-sized sense of self-entitlement attached. I am curious as to where that sense of self-entitlement comes from.

Adara and Asterix: Birth Announcements from the Melbourne “Age” (April)

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Twins

Finn James and Isla Diana

 

Girls

Adara Grace

Annabel Tamara (Georgia)

Ashlyn Ciara

Chloe Maeve (Charlie, Sam, Holly)

Emilie Madeline

Lucinda Phillipa (Alice)

Makayla April (Kiera)

Rose Eliza

Zoe Chee Mei (Mia)

 

Boys

Archer Rory “Archie”

Asterix Serge Bernard

Bart Robert (Fred)

Dougal John McCallum (Archie)

Frederic George (Eliza)

George David (Henry, Zara)

Oliver James

Samuel Bryan

Thomas Ian

(Picture shows the Melbourne International Flower and Garden Show 2012, held at the Royal Exhibition Building and Carlton Gardens, and ending in April)

Scout Lake and Forrest Gray: Birth Announcements from the Melbourne “Herald Sun” (April)

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Twins

Declan James and Harry William

 

Girls

Ada Ruby (Ryu)

Alliana Kaeli Matyse (Emmerson)

Arabella Sparkes

Charlotte Blythe (Arabella)

Clea Violet (Siearra)

Haylee Anna Jane

Keira Charli Pearl (Maisie)

Lenny Claire

Lily Mae Bianca

Neve Liliana (Asher)

Phoebe Clancy

Sadie Bluebelle (Noah)

Sarah Lauren Ruth (Lachlan)

Scout Lake

Seraphine Bailey (Althea)

 

Boys

Cale Patrick (Riley, Aidan)

Carter Ridley (Aiden)

Dan Harvey (Ned)

Forrest Gray (Tully)

Jack Vedder

Jake Henry Joseph (Levi)

Jeremy Lucas (Asha, Lachie)

Joakim Alexander (Viola)

Jude Jacobus

Kobe Alan Michel

Lennon Roy Christopher (Zachariah)

Manuel Rimon

Nero Vincenzo Salvatore

Torsten Thomas

Wilson Vaughan (Bonnie, Ginger)

(Photo shows the start of the ANZAC Day match between NRL teams Melbourne Storm and the New Zealand Warriors).