Waltzing With …Toci

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This blog post was first published on March 4 2012, and edited and republished on February 24 2016

Today is the first Sunday in March, which means it’s Clean Up Australia Day. This environmental effort encourages people to clean up their own communities, and the concept went global after Australia pitched the idea to the United Nations – hence the birth of Clean Up The World, whose clean-up campaign is held on the third weekend in September (the northern hemisphere autumn).

Cleaning up seems suitable for the Lenten season, when we are supposed to be ridding ourselves of bad habits, and pulling back from the excesses of Christmas and New Year. Although Lent is an important period on the Christian calendar, it must have seemed natural to our ancestors, since late winter/early spring was a time of cleansing and purification to both the ancient Romans and the ancient Celts. This season was also the natural time for them to do their spring cleaning, and may have been inspired by the spring rains washing the land.

In the southern hemisphere, Lent occurs in the late summer and autumn. However, many cultures hold their festivals of cleansing and purification in the autumn instead of the spring, tying them to the harvest and preparations for winter.

For example, the Aztecs of central Mexico had Ochpaniztli, the Month of Sweeping, corresponding to the first twenty days of September. They didn’t just have a Clean Up Day – for three weeks, not only houses were cleaned, but everyone pitched in and cleaned the entire city. They also took communal sweat baths, that were designed to cleanse the body, mind and spirit. Then they fasted – not for a mere forty days, like Lent, but for eighty days.

The presiding goddess of the Month of Sweeping was Toci, who was called The Mother of the Gods, and also Heart of the Earth. She was a goddess of healing, and venerated by healers and midwives. Another of her names was the “grandmother of sweat baths”, and she was also a war goddess. Her war epithet was Woman of Discord.

The Month of Sweeping was not only cleansing, but also a time for sowing corn, ritual dancing, and military ceremonies. It was a busy time of year. (If you have even a dim knowledge of Aztec society, you will be able to guess what else was performed during Ochpaniztli to honour Toci).

Another of her names was Tlazolteotl, a goddess of purification who could cleanse both the body and the spirit. People confessed their sins to Tlazolteotl through a priest, upon which they were forgiven (although people confess their sins during Lent too, the Aztecs did it only once in their lives; I don’t know what happened if you sinned after your confession).

Tlazolteotl sent people sexually transmitted diseases to punish them for lechery, but she would heal and forgive them too. She also inspired people with the desires to commit acts of lewdness … clearly she was a complicated goddess. She was called She Who Eats Sin, The Death Caused by Lust, and She of Two Faces. Slightly confusingly, under her two-faced designation, she was believed to consist of four different sisters representing different stages of a woman’s life: Tiacapan, TeicuTlaco and Xocotzin.

Toci means “our grandmother” in the Nahuatl language, as she was a very ancient goddess. It might seem strange to give a baby a name that means “grandmother”. And yet obviously we hope our baby daughters will grow up to be old and wise, and we don’t have any problems giving them the names of their grandmother, or our own grandmother. There are several names in Native American languages which mean “grandmother”, so they must have been seen as appropriate.

Toci only shows up a few time in the records as a name given to girls in Mexico, so this is a rarity even in its country of origin. English-speakers can pronounce the name something like TOH-see, to rhyme with Josie. Not only an interesting heritage choice, Toci has an elusive multicultural feel.

Toci does almost qualify as a truly unique name. It’s simple, it’s not frilly, and is difficult to turn into a nickname. Its meaning is venerable, and its history dark and mysterious. I don’t think for a moment that the average person would choose the name Toci, but for some reason it fascinates me.

POLL RESULTS
Toci received an approval rating of 43%. 40% of people disliked the name, and only 8% liked it.

(Picture is Woman Sweeping the Floor, by Deb Schmit)

Chloe and William – #1 in New South Wales

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Looking at the girls’ Top 20, Chloe rose two places to take the #1 position, which she last held in 2006. Meanwhile, Isabella slipped from first place to #4.

The biggest gainer was Ava, who went up five places from #14 to #9; Sophie wasn’t far behind, upping herself four places from #11 to #7.

The biggest loser was Lily, who slid seven places down to #14. It seems that across the states, the name Lily is falling in popularity without ever reaching the top spot. Similar-sounding Emily went down four places, from #8 to #12.

Other than that, the list is about as lively as molasses, with Olivia, Mia, Charlotte, Sienna, Amelia, Ella, Sophia, Zoe and Emma stable, and Ruby, Grace, Matilda, Hannah and Jessica not changing position at all.

All the girls’ lists have been extremely conservative, and New South Wales seems the most conservative of all, with no new names in the Top 20 and the #1 name a retread. It does feel as if everyone has decided what their favourite girls’ names are, and they’re sticking with them.

On the boys’ Top 20, royal William maintains the #1 position which he has held since 2009.

The big mover and shaker was Lucas, who ascended eight places from #10 to reach the #2 spot. Maybe Lucas is gunning for first position. Other names which grew in popularity were Ethan, Benjamin and Lachlan. Yep Lachlan – still going strong.

Joshua fell the most, five places from #4 down to #9. While Jack was #1 in Victoria, in New South Wales it dropped four places, from #2 to #6. It seems that Jack the Lad is beginning to lose ground. Thomas and Cooper also decreased in popularity – names which were #1 in the ACT and Queensland.

Oliver, Noah, James, Samuel, Liam, Alexander and Isaac remained stable, and Jacob, Max and Riley didn’t move a muscle. I think New South Wales is the only state where Riley didn’t suffer a loss.

Charlie is new to the Top 20 at #18, while Daniel left the list.

Slightly more movement than the girls’ Top 20, but overall New South Wales didn’t change too much when it came to names at the top.

Further down the list, there have been some new developments though. Celebrity baby name Harper made her way onto the Top 100 at #57, indicating a very rapid rise.

Mila and Milla are both new on the list at #72 and #84. I was a little surprised to see that Mila is higher than Milla, but both these names have been fashionable for a while now.

Aaliyah is new on the list at #77. I predicted we’d see a greater proliferation in spellings of this name, but the original spelling is popular enough to make it to the Top 100. If spellings were combined, this name would be much, much higher.

As in Victoria and the ACT, Charlie is now Top 100 for girls as well as boys, since she joined the list at #93.

In other news, Taylor has gone from the Top 100, Ashley is still hanging on, and Tahlia has had a big slide from #47 to #81.

Over on the boy’s list, another celebrity baby name, Flynn, has made his mark, joining the Top 100 at #51. It’s an impressive start, and Flynn will probably be Top 50 in 2012.

Darcy has left the Top 100. Although it fell everywhere, I think New South Wales is the first state to abandon Darcy, and the reason is probably that it is starting to seem too feminine in usage.

Phoenix has gone from the Top 100 after just one year – was it a flash in the pan, or is it still gathering momentum? Felix is new to the list, and seems like the perfect replacement. Braxton is another new-name-with-an-X for boys.

Ali has done well, climbing from #93 to #71. It’s a sign of Arabic names doing well in general, and it’s also a good cultural cross-over name.

A surprise success is John, who has risen from barely-there #99 to #77 – quite a jump up for a name that many pegged as being in decline.

 

Top 100 Baby Girl Names in New South Wales for 2011

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  1. Chloe
  2. Ruby
  3. Olivia
  4. Isabella
  5. Mia
  6. Charlotte
  7. Sophie
  8. Sienna
  9. Ava
  10. Amelia
  11. Ella
  12. Emily
  13. Grace
  14. Lily
  15. Sophia
  16. Zoe
  17. Emma
  18. Matilda
  19. Hannah
  20. Jessica
  21. Eva
  22. Isla
  23. Georgia
  24. Scarlett
  25. Lucy
  26. Zara
  27. Abigail
  28. Evie
  29. Jasmine
  30. Isabelle
  31. Sarah
  32. Sofia
  33. Ivy
  34. Lilly
  35. Maddison
  36. Layla
  37. Chelsea
  38. Maya
  39. Madison
  40. Summer
  41. Alexis
  42. Holly
  43. Savannah
  44. Elizabeth
  45. Imogen
  46. Annabelle
  47. Lara
  48. Alice
  49. Hayley
  50. Bella
  51. Addison
  52. Audrey
  53. Molly
  54. Stella
  55. Alyssa
  56. Willow
  57. Harper
  58. Ellie
  59. Anna
  60. Natalie
  61. Phoebe
  62. Lillian
  63. Claire
  64. Gabriella
  65. Rose
  66. Mikayla
  67. Paige
  68. Piper
  69. Evelyn
  70. Madeline
  71. Jade
  72. Mila
  73. Violet
  74. Samantha
  75. Victoria
  76. Eliza
  77. Aaliyah
  78. Poppy
  79. Indiana
  80. Leah
  81. Tahlia
  82. Mackenzie
  83. Erin
  84. Milla
  85. Caitlin
  86. Amelie
  87. Charli
  88. Alana
  89. Lola
  90. Ashley
  91. Kayla
  92. Angelina
  93. Charlie
  94. Madeleine
  95. Eden
  96. Eloise
  97. Alexandra
  98. Amber
  99. Eve
  100. Isabel

Top 100 Baby Boy Names in New South Wales for 2011

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  1. William
  2. Lucas
  3. Lachlan
  4. Ethan
  5. Oliver
  6. Jack
  7. Noah
  8. Thomas
  9. Joshua
  10. Cooper
  11. Benjamin
  12. James
  13. Jacob
  14. Samuel
  15. Liam
  16. Alexander
  17. Max
  18. Charlie
  19. Isaac
  20. Riley
  21. Jayden
  22. Xavier
  23. Ryan
  24. Daniel
  25. Tyler
  26. Harrison
  27. Mason
  28. Jake
  29. Levi
  30. Harry
  31. Oscar
  32. Matthew
  33. Luke
  34. Logan
  35. Michael
  36. Nicholas
  37. Aiden
  38. Sebastian
  39. Henry
  40. Jackson
  41. Dylan
  42. Hayden
  43. Joseph
  44. Elijah
  45. Eli
  46. Blake
  47. Archie
  48. Hunter
  49. Adam
  50. Beau
  51. Flynn
  52. Connor
  53. Zachary
  54. Patrick
  55. Ashton
  56. Christian
  57. George
  58. Finn
  59. Nathan
  60. Nate
  61. Angus
  62. Toby
  63. Jordan
  64. Bailey
  65. Leo
  66. Anthony
  67. Hamish
  68. Edward
  69. Caleb
  70. Andrew
  71. Ali
  72. Marcus
  73. Charles
  74. Cameron
  75. Callum
  76. Zac
  77. John
  78. David
  79. Luca
  80. Mitchell
  81. Kai
  82. Lincoln
  83. Aidan
  84. Christopher
  85. Chase
  86. Dominic
  87. Austin
  88. Jonathan
  89. Owen
  90. Hugo
  91. Aaron
  92. Alex
  93. Ryder
  94. Jett
  95. Felix
  96. Koby
  97. Jaxon
  98. Gabriel
  99. Jasper
  100. Braxton

Saturday Celebrity Sibset: The Rockers – Brody Dalle and Josh Homme

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This is yet another celebrity baby from 2011 I didn’t see, so made it a Celebrity Sibset instead.

Brody Dalle is a punk rocker who is originally from Melbourne. Her parents named her Bree, and she picked the unisex name Brody for herself as a teenager. Apparently as a child she was called Breezy Wheezy by her family because she had asthma, which rather ruined the name Bree for her.

She has used the middle names Leslie and Joanna Alice; I’m not sure if either of them are her original middle name/s. She has managed an impressive seven surnames during her life, and it’s unclear what the original surname was. She went by Pucilowski, Mayer and Robinson just as a teenager. Eventually she chose Dalle in reference to Béatrice Dalle, her favourite actress. Béatrice Dalle is best known for the film Betty Blue.

Brody began her career in punk at the age of thirteen, and at sixteen she met Tim Armstrong, the vocalist for punk rock band Rancid at a music festival. They began a relationship, although Tim was more than thirteen years her senior. They married when Brody turned 18, and she moved to Los Angeles with her husband, where she founded the band The Distillers. Brody and Tim divorced six years later.

In 2007, Brody married Josh Homme, lead singer from rock band Queens of the Stone Age, and founded the indie rock band Spinnerette; the couple live in Palm Springs, California.

Josh also has an interesting name – he was named after the town he was born in, Joshua Tree, in the Mojave Desert of California. He pronounces his Norwegian surname to rhyme with Tommy, although the Norwegian pronunciation is to rhyme with puma. He has adopted the pseudonym Carlo von Sexron for some of his work, and his nicknames include King Baby Duck, J. Ho, Joe’s Hoe, and the Ginger Elvis.

Brody and Josh have two children, and as they have enjoyed re-naming themselves so much, it’s interesting to see what names they would choose for their children.

Camille Harley Joan was born in 2006. Camille is named after Josh’s grandmother, and Josh collects motorcycles, which probably explains Harley. Although Joan looks like Brody’s middle name Joanna, it also reminds me of rock queen Joan Jett, who must have had some influence on Dalle herself. However, for all I know it’s another family name.

Orrin Ryder was born in 2011. Rumour has it that just as Camille is named after Josh’s grandma, Orrin is named for his grandfather, but I can’t confirm that. Josh has both his grandmother’s and grandfather’s nicknames tattooed on his knuckles – CAM and CAP – so it does have some symmetry. It’s hard not to connect the name Ryder with Josh’s motorcycle hobby as well.

Being called after a family member seems cosy and non-punk, although being named after Dad’s tattoos and motorbikes gives them a bit more of a rock edge.

I wonder if Camille and Orrin will follow the family tradition of giving new names to themselves, and what names they will choose?

Alessandra and Casimir: Birth Announcements from the Melbourne “Age” (February)

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Girls

Alessandra Jane (Finn, Patrick)

Ann Sally Kathleen

Caitlin Zhen-Xing

Cecilia Ellenora

Elsa Rose (Cleo)

Juliet Emily (Arielle, William)

Lily Grace

Una Rose (Molly)

 

Boys

Alfred Michael “Freddie”

Casimir George (Alexei)

Darcy James (Sam, Lucy, Ben)

Henry John Harley

Hugh Ian

Hugo David William (Sienna)

James Lambert

Solomon De Ren

Coco Lucia and Tate Kees: Birth Announcements from Melbourne’s “Herald Sun” (February)

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Twins and Triplets

Ashtyn Jay and Mya Anastaizya

Mikayla Anne and Sophia Rose (Angelique)

Oliver and Lily

Bailey Matthew, Miley Jade and Tyler Blake

 

Girls

Antonia Francesca (Vincent, Alexander)

Charlie Linda (Ethan)

Clara Elisabeth

Coco Lucia (Jack)

Elodie Beth June

Esther Marlowe (Quinn)

Georgia Hope – surname O’Keefe

Isla Lux (April)

Jacinta Mei

London Grigg (Jett, River, Willow)

Matisse Lila (Mitchell, Austin)

Millian Grace

Pearl Rose

Pippa Niamh (Evie)

Sarahjane Inez (Samantha, Savannah)

Scarlett Ivy

Stevie Jay (Tyra)

Syieve Christina (Jacob, Rhiannon, Imogen, Matilda)

Varli Chance Paige (Zarina, Quaysha, Jensen, Xalise)

 

Boys

Abraham Newman (Scarlett, Oliver) – born on Abraham Lincoln’s birthday

Alexander Hoi Jun (Gabriella)

Andrew Chay

Braeydon Jae Burrall

Charlie Christopher Leo (Oscar)

Clem Douglass (Eleni)

Ethan Jude Walter

Fergus Donald (Audrey)

Hudson Thomas James

Ivan William David

Jed Gordon (Emerson, Darcy)

Julian Nicholas

Lawson Daniel Mervyn (Harrison)

Noah David Andrew

Ronald Jack

Saxon Robert

Soren Johan

Tate Kees (Summer, Grace)

Tex Michael

Celebrity Baby News: Virginia Trioli and Russell Skelton

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ABC television presenter, Virginia Trioli, and her husband, journalist Russell Skelton, recently welcomed their son, Addison Marcello Skelton.

Virginia has been a journalist in print, on radio, and on TV for many years; she has won two Walkley Awards. Since 2008, she has been co-host on ABC News Breakfast.

Russell is a contributing editor to The Age newspaper, and has been reporting on Indigenous issues since 2005. He has won the Grant Hattam Quill Award for investigative journalist, and a United Nations Association Peace Award for his reports on Aboriginal disadvantage. Russell has children from a previous relationship.

Virginia and Russell were married in 2003 in Italy.

Addison is a bold choice for a boy, as it is a Top 100 name for girls in Victoria, where the Skelton family live. I’m pleased to see that gender take-backs can occur at any point, if parents only have the gumption to do so.

Famous Name: Kevin

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Over at The Name Station, there is an article quoting two studies which demonstrate that Kevin is the worst possible name to have in Germany. For some reason, this name really gets up the noses of Central European schoolteachers and cyber-daters.

As it turns out, the Germans aren’t exactly Robinson Crusoe in this regard. According to Lou at Mer de Noms (niece of a Kevin), the French also look down their noses at the name Kevin, and say, Non, non, non! Across the Channel, Kevin is considered a chavvy (bogan) name, to the point where kev is a synonym of chav, innit?

And if we hop over the Pond, American TV shows such as Daria and South Park depict Kevins as either dumb jocks or disposable meaningless characters. Oddly enough, in the United States Kevin is disliked for the exact opposite reason as in Europe – far from being too lower-class and urban, Kevin is seen as too middle-class and suburban.

A persistent Internet rumour is that the name Kevin is banned in Mexico because it will lead to “teasing and ridicule”. Actually the Chihuahua state government forbids parents from using any non-Spanish name without a Spanish middle name, and for some reason, reporters always seem to use Kevin as an example, hence the confusion. That may say more about how the name Kevin is viewed by the reporters than how it is in Mexico.

Apparently vast tracts of the Northern Hemisphere are infected by an intense loathing of people named Kevin. Here, another group who has joined the We Hate Kevin Club is the Australian Labor Party Caucus, who on Monday morning voted against Kevin Rudd’s bid for the leadership, two votes to one. So much do they detest Kevin Rudd that they profess a preference to losing an election without Rudd than winning one with him.

Their vote in support of Julia Gillard is not so much a ringing endorsement of her leadership as it is a sign of their determination to vote for ABK – Anyone But Kevin.

Kevin Rudd was elected Prime Minister of Australia in a landslide victory in 2007, his supporters running with the slogan Kevin ’07. Soon his non-stop work ethic led to him being labelled Kevin 24/7, and his frequent diplomatic trips around the world Kevin 747. Some papers sneeringly called him Kevin 7-11 for catering to the public a little too readily, like a convenient corner shop, and rumour had it he was Kevin 007 – a double-agent leaking information that could damage his enemies.

However, his authoritarian work style and biting insults made him anything but loved by his Labor colleagues, who ousted him the minute his popularity slipped in the polls and replaced him with his Deputy, Julia Gillard. This was all done so quickly that Rudd supporters have some basis for seeing him as stabbed in the back, as happens so often in the workplace.

Since his dumping, there has remained the vague threat (or hope) that he would one day rise up and take back his power. When Julia Gillard’s own popularity plummeted to record lows, he suggested he might run for party leader (and thus Prime Minister).

Polls done in the lead-up to Monday morning’s ballot showed great public support for Kevin Rudd, with the majority of people preferring him to either Julia Gillard or Tony Abbot, the Opposition Leader. The Pro-Kevin lobby reached fever-pitch. He was treated like a rock star wherever he went, received messages from people all over the country in his support, and was proclaimed the People’s Prime Minister. However, the people’s support is useless without the support of your party. That’s politics.

Maybe the Germans, the French, the British, the North Americans, and possibly the Mexicans can’t stand Kevin, but it seems Australians are pretty okay with it. We elected a Kevin Prime Minister, even though Dame Edna Everage expressed some doubts about the idea (she was probably catering to the anti-Kevin prejudices of her chiefly British audience). And even though he’s gone, he was never voted out, and clearly a sizeable chunk of the population would like him back.

The media love the name Kevin as well – it’s so useful for catchphrases and headlines. Not only Kevin ’07, Kevin 24/7, Kevin 747, Kevin 7-11 and Kevin 007, but also in the headlines were Kevingate, The Kevinator, Good Heaven’s It’s Kevin, Kevin Heaven, Kevin in Heaven, A Kevinly Sign from Above, Knocking on Kevin’s Door, and Kevenge (an act of revenge committed by someone named Kevin).

Australians have never had problems with names of Irish origin (as the list of Famous Names is starting to make pretty obvious). Kevin is the Anglicised form of the Irish name Caoimhin, a form of the older Cóemgein, which can be translated as “gentle” or “handsome”. Saint Kevin is the patron saint of Dublin, and is sometimes called the Irish St Francis of Assisi for his love of animals and nature. According to legend, an angel turned up at his baptism and instructed that he should be called Kevin, which the bishop naturally felt obliged to go along with. Maybe Kevin truly is a name from heaven? (A more plausible tale is that his name was bestowed upon him by fellow monks in tribute to his sweet nature).

In Australia, Kevin is a classic name which has never left the charts since record-keeping began in 1900. It first joined the Top 100 in the 1910s, and peaked in the 1930s at #6. It remained a Top 100 name for nine decades until the early 2000s, when it just dipped out at #101. Currently it’s #154.

In Queensland, which is Mr Rudd’s home state, there were twice as many babies named Kevin last year than babies named Julia, his deposer. And I have noticed in the birth announcements how common Kevin is as a middle name for boys.

Are they being named after a father, an uncle, a grandfather … or a lost Prime Minister who may still return, like the once and future king? Rudd Redux?

NOTE: Kevin is a Top 100 name in at least nine different countries, two of which, France and the United States, supposedly despise it. Go figure. Maybe this whole anti-Kevin thing is a beat-up.

Names Spotted Over the Summer, at Home and Abroad

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Interesting names of babies I spotted in the papers over the summer:

When the popular name lists came out, newspapers also liked to dwell on the less popular names (more coming on that score). One of the babies with an uncommon name was the splendidly Arthurian Lancelot Palmer, from Wagga Wagga in New South Wales. Lancelot is named after his mother’s grandfather, who passed away a few years ago.

To publicise Australia Day events in Tasmania, The Examiner had a photo of an eight-month-old baby girl named Uma Paech, from Lauceston (pictured). It’s a celebrity name, because of Hollywood actress Uma Thurman, but also shows the growing popularity of names from Asia. Uma Thurman was raised in a Buddhist household, and her father was the first Westerner to become a Tibetan Buddhist monk. Her name is taken from the Tibetan phrase Dbuma Chenpo, meaning “Great Middle Way”; one of the guiding principles of Buddhist practice. (The Db is silent). Uma is also one of the titles of the Hindu goddess Parvati.

In early February, an official report on publicly funded home births was prepared by the Homebirth Advisory Group from the Northern Rivers district of New South Wales. The story interviewed Jade Trapp of Lismore, who gave birth to her son Django at home with a midwife two years ago. This is another name which comes from a famous person. It was the nickname of Belgian jazz guitarist Jean Baptiste Reinhardt, and it is Romani for “I awake”. Although Django died in the 1950s, his gypsy jazz is still hot, and he has been portrayed or alluded to in several films, including The Triplets of Belleville and Martin’s Scorscese’s Hugo. His music has been used for the soundtrack of movies such as The Matrix, Chocolat, Kate and Leopold and Stardust Memories. This is a hyper-hipster name oft suggested on Nameberry, and one with a cheery sound to it.

Meme and Soemyint Theloep are recent refugees from Burma who live in the Illawarra region surrounding the city of Wollongong in New South Wales. This month, they were caught in the floodwaters that flowed into their flat, and Soemyint had to carry his three-week-old daughter to safety in a baby sling. Although their English is still only basic, they knew enough to give their baby an English name – Blessing. What a beautiful tribute to their new home and refuge (despite the occasional flood). It’s a name that makes me smile and smile.

Monica Carduff Gonzalez, professionally known as DJ Monski Mouse, has been playing classic vinyl tracks at events such as the Edinburgh Fringe Festival for ten years now. She is now starting up an event called Baby Disco Dance Hall, which plays funky tunes suitable for the under-five crowd. Monica’s own daughter is named Monalisa (didn’t you just somehow guess her baby wouldn’t be named Emily or Mia?). Apart from the famous painting by da Vinci, Mona Lisa is also an award-winning Nat King Cole song, and it was playing while Monica and her husband, magician Tony Roberts, were choosing baby names; the new baby smiled, and they took that as her seal of approval. I love this cool name and the story attached to it (which I got off her website).

And an interesting name attached to an adult:

I read a short article on parenting about the myths of motherhood. It’s good advice telling us not to worry so much about being perfect. What interested me more was the author’s name, which was Benison O’Reilly. Her name is a vocabulary word which means “blessing, benediction”. According to her website, it’s a favourite name amongst the O’Reilly family. I think it’s a great name and obviously has a very positive meaning.

Names of babies encountered over the summer in real life:

Annabel: the original form looks crisp, classic and very English after so many Frenchified Annabelles.

Cael: I always thought this Irish name was said like the word keel, but Cael’s family say his name like the word kale.

Lacey: I feel as if the long-term popularity of Lucy is helping the rise of pretty Lacey.

Purity: this name reminded me of purity rings, but her name was chosen with the idea of purity in the sense of “pure and natural, uncontaminated by the artificial”. Purely herself!

Zeke: not short for Ezekiel, just plain Zeke. Very cowboy.

Names of new babies welcomed by people I know (family/friends/colleagues/neighbours etc) over the summer:

Bethany

Brock

Eleanor

Finn

Isla

Laila

Leilani

Stella

According to a new article Abby has at Appellation Mountain, the baby names chosen by the people around you will likely tend to be similar, and also not unlike the names you are apt to choose yourself (leading to much angst and accusations of name stealing and so forth – see Lou at Mer de Noms, as to whether to “call dibs” or not).

I think some of these names do “go together”, as in I can imagine Finn and Isla as siblings, and also Eleanor and Stella. There’s a strong L sound in all of them except Bethany, Brock and Finn, who thus also seem to be matched. Laila and Leilani are particularly similar.