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Is it a Crime for Sisters’ Names to Rhyme?

05 Saturday Dec 2015

Posted by A.O. in Naming Assistance

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Christine and Sam are expecting their second child next year. If it’s a boy – no problems, they have easily agreed on a choice of two, and selected the middle name. If it’s a girl, things aren’t so straightforward.

Christine would adore either Isobel, Evie, Charlotte, or Emerson. However, Sam absolutely loves the name Matilda. On the face of it, this seems fine, because Christine also likes the name Matilda. And Sam really wanted to name their eldest child Avery, but Christine’s choice of Amelia won the day, so Christine wants him to have his turn at choosing a baby name.

Amelia and Matilda seem no drama as sisters, but they always call Amelia “Millie”, and this is the source of Christine’s dilemma. She worries that the sisters will end up being called Millie and Tilly, and this will make them the butt of jokes. She’s tried to convince herself that they could call Matilda “Tilda“, but she doesn’t really love the idea.

Christine wants to know how Amelia and Matilda sound as sisters, and if people will snigger as they call them Millie and Tilly.

Christine wants to stress that Sam also likes all her choices for a girl: he just has his heart set on a little Matilda. The middle name will either be Audrey or Carter, which are both family names.

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Christine, I get why you’re torn over the name Matilda, as there is a widespread belief that it is stupid and tasteless for your childrens’ names to rhyme. There is even a sterotyped sibset of 1970s siblings named Sharon, Karen and Darren, as a warning to us how we will be mocked if we dare to give our children names that rhyme (today I guess it’s Jayden, Kayden and Hayden).

Except – Amelia and Matilda don’t rhyme. It’s just the nicknames, or the potential nicknames they could be given.

I can imagine that someone might decide to call a Matilda “Tilly” as a tease to match her with her sister called Millie. It sounds annoying, but not really devastating. I would hope that these people would be an irritating minority, rather than the rule.

Or would you want to call Matilda by the nickname Tilly yourself …. except that you already have a Millie? Would you feel able to boldly call them Millie and Tilly, and stare down anyone who giggled?

Even in this case, I don’t think it will be as big a problem as you probably imagine. I went to high school with a girl named Penelope (always known as Penny), and she had an older sister named Jennifer (usually called Jen or Jenny). It did register with me that their nicknames rhymed, but I never commented on it, and certainly never did a finger-pointing laugh over it.

Why not? Well, for a start I was fifteen, not five! And Jenny was already a young adult at university, so it’s not as if I saw them together a lot, or even heard their names said together very often. It might have been different if I’d seen them both in primary school wearing matching uniforms and identical ponytails.

Even the closest sisters will have separate interests and friendship groups. And they will eventually grow up and have their own homes and careers (perhaps live in different cities or even different countries), and their names will barely be an issue. Besides, either one of them might decide they don’t want to be called by a nickname, or prefer a different nickname, such as Amy or Tilda.

I tend to trust your instinct that this time it’s Sam’s turn to have his favourite name, especially as it’s a name which you like as well and makes a nice match with Amelia. It may not be a completely issue-free choice, but I don’t think there are enough problems with it for it to be vetoed.

If I met someone with daughters named Millie and Tilly, I might be slightly amused, but I would think it was very cute. However, I do have to say no to having a son named William later and calling him Billy! You can have too much of a good thing.

Readers, what do you think of Amelia and Matilda as sisters? And are the nicknames Millie and Tilly something to worry about?

(Picture shows a scene from the Disney film Cinderella II: Dreams Come True)

Raven and Rye

04 Friday Dec 2015

Posted by A.O. in Birth Announcements

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Twins
Ethan Henry and Evan George

Girls
Adaleine Elizabeth (Olivia)
Amitiel
Annika Laura (Euan)
Arden Rayne (Adison, Aria)
Avi (Angel)
Clara Ivy
Darcy Ann (Frazer)
Eden Scarlett
Emily Jane Margaret (Harry)
Estelle Violet
Gabrielle Yanti
Georgie Ryan
Greta Florence (Jasper, Rory)
Haddie Rae (Frankie, Tadhg)
Haize Onix
Hudson Kristie
Imogen Sofia
Isabelle Lucy
Katherine Audrey (Elizabeth)
Khloe Peyton
Louisa Peta
Luna Joy
Maeve Rosemary (Penelope)
Nahari Jade
Neve Poppy (Zach, Ryley, Lucas)
Pyper KC (Bam)
Raven June
Sailor Marie
Samara Grace
Shelby Kay Rose

Boys
Abel Bowen
Alban Arthur
Alexander Robert Llewelyn “Xander” (Katie, Tom, Rhys, Ryan, Esme)
Angus Roy
Banjo Hunt
Bear William
Bentley Clifford-John
Blair Putu
Chase Johnathan Usher
Clark Michael
Edge Irvine (Lola, Van, Ziggy)
Elliot Yves Idris
Flynn Pieter
Francis Robin (Duke)
Henley Blake
Hugh Jobi (Lucas)
Jack Thomas Delorean Reece – born on Back to the Future Day (Alexander, Olivia, Samantha, Joss, Kaylee)
Jasper Reilly (Fisher)
Jimmy Jack (Addison)
Jordan Campbell
Kayto Richard
Lian (Mario, Amel, Kuol, Choc, Daniel)
Rio James (Poppy)
Rye Craig
Shalerstoo Htoo
Teddy Endel
Thomas Josip
Tyson Kyle (Naum)
Warrior (Tiger, Keeley, Bayley, Jackson, Letkya, Harley, Fany, Katelyn)
Xavier Harry Browning (Isobel)

(Picture is of the beach at Rye, Victoria; photo from ABC)

Celebrity Baby News: Sporting Babies

03 Thursday Dec 2015

Posted by A.O. in Celebrity Baby News

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Former cricketer Michael Clarke, and his wife Kyly, welcomed their daughter Kelsey Lee on November 17. Michael was one of Australia’s greatest batsmen, and captain of the Australian cricket team, before he retired earlier this year. Kyly (nee Boldy) is a model and multiple pageant winner who owns her own interior design business.

Rugby union footballer Dean Mumm and his wife Sarah [pictured] welcomed their son Alfred William Henry on September 24; Alfred Mumm is known as “Alfie“. Dean was born in New Zealand and has been playing rugby in Australia since he was in high school. He currently plays for the New South Wales Waratahs, and has played for the national team, the Wallabies, since 2008. Dean became the captain of the Wallbies the same day Alfie was born.

AFL footballer Jimmy Bartel, and his wife Nadia welcomed their son Aston James on November 27. Jimmy plays for the Geelong Cats, and is one of their star players, having won both the Brownlow Medal and the Norm Smith Medal. Nadia (nee Coppolino) is a fashion blogger.

Rugby league footballer Darius Boyd and his wife Kayla welcomed their daughter Willow Kamila in late September. Darius currently plays for the Brisbane Broncos, and has also been selected for the Queensland state team, the national team, and for the Prime Minister’s XIII. Kayla is a blogger and stylist.

Requested Name: Jacob

02 Wednesday Dec 2015

Posted by A.O. in Requested Names

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Jacob's Ladder

Biblical Namesake
In the Old Testament, Jacob was the son of Isaac and Rebecca, the grandson of Abraham and Sarah. He had a twin brother named Esau, and it was said that the two of them fought for supremacy even in the womb. Esau was born first, with Jacob following so close behind he was holding his brother’s heel.

As they grew older, the twins developed very different personalities and even appearances – Esau was a hunter and exceptionally hairy, while Jacob was smooth-skinned and home-loving. Esau was Isaac’s favourite son, while Rebecca preferred Jacob.

While he was literally as hungry as a hunter, Esau was convinced by his younger brother to sell him his birthright as eldest for a bowl of red lentil stew. By disguising himself as Esau by covering himself in animal hair, Jacob also obtained a blessing from their blind father Isaac; the blessing made him ruler over his older brother Esau.

To get him away from his now murderously angry brother, Jacob was sent to work for his uncle. On the way, he had a dream or vision of a ladder or staircase reaching into heaven, with angels ascending and descending, while the voice of God blessed and encouraged him.

Jacob worked for his uncle as a shepherd, and married his cousins Leah and Rachel (he just wanted Rachel, but there was a two-for-one offer and he was only allowed Rachel if he took her sister as well). With these two wives, and two concubines, he eventually had twelve sons and at least one daughter.

On the way back home with his family, Jacob had a mysterious encounter with a divine being, who wrestled with him all night, until his hip was dislocated. Jacob demanded a blessing from the being, who did so, and gave him the new name of Israel. It is traditionally said that the being was an angel, although Genesis suggests that Jacob wrestled with God. Jacob always walked with a limp because of the injury to his hip.

Jacob and Esau reconciled with one another, and had an emotional reunion, showing that both had matured over the years. Despite missing out on his birthright and blessing, Esau had become rich and successful, and had a large family of his own; this probably made it easier for him to forgive his twin.

Jacob is regarded as the father of the Israelites, and his twelve sons as the progenitors of the Twelve Tribes of Israel. He is venerated in Judaism as one of the great patriachs, while in Islam Yaqub is one of the prophets, upheld as an example of someone who trusted God completely. In Christianity, Jacob is revered because Jesus spoke of him, and his visions are believed to refer to the coming of Christ. He is regarded as a saint in Catholic tradition.

Name Information
The name Jacob is derived from Iacobus, a Latin form of the Hebrew Ya’akov. The Bible explains the name as meaning “holder of the heel”, as Jacob was born holding his twin brother’s heel, from the Hebrew word aqab, meaning “restrain”, a play on words with the similar iqqbah, “heel”.

The name is often translated as “supplanter”, because Jacob supplanted his older brother in gaining his inheritance. You could take holding a heel as a metaphor for supplanting someone, which is the only way this particular meaning makes even vague sense.

Neither of these is very convincing – the Bible is good at coming up with clever joke explanations of what names mean, but isn’t strong on etymology.

It has been suggested that the name could be short for a hypothetical longer name, such as Ya’aqov’el, meaning “may God protect”. In a baby name book I owned by Oxford philologist Julia Cresswell (now sadly fallen to unrecognisable pieces), she offers the theory that Jacob may ultimately be from Babylonian and mean “God rewards”. Unfortunately, I don’t remember her giving a source for this information.

So we know that Jacob is a name with very old roots, but the exact meaning of it cannot be recovered. It seems more likely to me that the meaning has something to do with God rather than feet, but all theories are only speculative.

Jacob has been used as an English name since the Middle Ages, although not as common as its New Testament form, James. It has often been thought of as being a particularly Jewish choice, although the sheer numbers of Jacobs through history in comparison to the Jewish population make this idea untenable. There is a Saint Jacob, an early Christian martyr from Syria, and the name became rather a favourite in the Eastern church. In the form Jakob, it was commonly used in Central and Eastern Europe, and there are quite a number of medieval saints named Jakob or Jakov.

Famous men from Australian history named Jacob include Jacob Pitman, a South Australian builder and architect who was responsible for spreading the work of his brother Isaac Pitman, the creator of a common form of shorthand. Jacob Nagle was an American-born sailor who arrived here on the First Fleet and left a lively account of early Sydney, while Jacob Mountgarrett was an Irish surgeon to the early colony. Jacob Garrard was a prominent trade unionist, and Jacob Oberdoo an Aboriginal leader.

Notable Jewish Jacobs in Australia include Jacob Montfiore, a highly successful businessman, politician, magistrate, bank director, and community leader – he also wrote plays and an opera. Rabbi Jacob Danglow was senior Jewish chaplain to the army during World War II, and Jacob Bloch was the premier maker of ballet shoes in the mid 20th century (not much of a businessman, but fun-loving and popular). Jacob Goldstein was a Christian charity worker of Jewish heritage.

Jacobs Creek in South Australia’s Barossa Valley is named after an assistant surveyor called William Jacob who settled here in the 1840s. Its main claim to fame is that it has given its name to the Jacobs Creek wine brand.

The name Jacob first charted in Australia in the 1970s, debuting at #163 – part of the trend towards fresh Biblical names for boys, and perhaps influenced by popular Jason. It joined the Top 100 in 1982 at #72, and was in the Top 50 by 1985. In the Top 20 by 1993, Jacob peaked in 2001 at #11, never reaching the Top 10. During the last few years its position has stabilised in the Top 20.

It is #18 nationally, #12 in New South Wales, #25 in Victoria, #26 in Queensland, #16 in South Australia, #10 in Western Australia, #11 in Tasmania, #20 in the Northern Territory, and #32 in the Australian Capital Territory.

In the US Jacob has been constantly on the Top 1000 since the late 19th century, and has never been lower than #368 in 1962. It was popular in the 19th century, and rejoined the Top 100 in the mid 1970s. It reached #1 in 1999 and remained there until 2013; it is now #4.

In the UK, Jacob was a popular name during the 19th century and was in the Top 40 by the mid 1990s. It has been climbing since 2008, and is currently #4. Jacob is most popular in the US and UK, but is popular in all English-speaking countries, and also in Scandinavia. The Jakob spelling is most popular in Slovenia, but also charts in Austria and Scandinavia. (Most countries pronounce the name differently to how we say it).

Jacob is a strong, handsome traditional name on its way to becoming a modern classic. The stability of its popularity makes it a very safe choice, yet it is still quite distinctive. The most common nickname is Jake, but in times past Jack was used, and more recently Coby and Jay.

Thank you to Susan for suggesting the name Jacob be featured on Waltzing More Than Matilda.

POLL RESULTS
Jacob received an approval rating of 58%. 17% of people thought Jacob was a safe choice that was still interesting, but 16% saw it as boring and common, and 15% as too popular. 10% of people loved the nickname Jake, while 5% hated it.

(Painting is of Jacob’s Ladder by William Blake, 1805)

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